How to React When a Friend Asks You to End a Competing Friendship

It really hurts whenever someone you think is your friend turns out to be someone who was using you to make another person jealous. If this has happened to you, then you know what it's like. When your friends tell you not to be friends with another person, its just like them telling you to go do drugs. Here's what you can do to change it.

STEPS

• It really hurts whenever someone you think is your friend turns out to be someone who was using you to make another person jealous. If this has happened to you, then you know what it's like. When your friends tell you not to be friends with another person, its just like them telling you to go do drugs. Here's what you can do to change it.

• Be straightforward and honest about how you feel. If you want to drop your so-called friends, then drop em'! But if you don't want to hurt their feelings you can always be nice and tell them this is not going to work out. On the other hand, if you still want to be friends with the, then invite them to your house, the mall, parties, etc. You'll never know unless you try.

• Never be mean to them. If you are going be mean to them, think twice about it. For they can spread rumors about you and ruin your reputation. Instead, try to break up with them step by step and make sure they don't know you'll break up with them.

TIPS

Only keep the friends who are there for you no matter what, not the ones who only want you as a friend when they are desperate.

WARNINGS

• Don't be too rough on them.

• Always clarify what you say. Don't let them take your words out of context.

sumber: wikiHow (google)